February felt like a month of understanding the necessity of nurturing one’s soul. I have truly felt the difference that comes from simply listening to my body, something I often overlook. I even took a personal day off work just to spend time with myself. As someone who always feels the need to be productive, I have realized that pouring into myself doesn’t mean I am “selfish,” despite how society may frame it. I am embracing this new way of thinking because burnout can creep in when we least expect it.
This month also brought very in-depth conversations in therapy that I am still slowly digesting. Sometimes it takes me a while to process things, that’s just my brain playing catch-up. One thing that really stuck with me was when my therapist said, “Vanessa, you look more grounded, despite all that you are currently working through.” Honestly, that meant so much to me. I tend to let life and challenging situations take over my thoughts, often neglecting myself in the process. But this new season is allowing me to use discernment and lean on God, trusting Him to direct me through it.
I finally visited a plant house in Alexandria, VA that I had been meaning to check out for a long time. I booked a DIY terrarium class, and I have to say, I enjoyed every moment of it. I will definitely be doing that again!
Cafés I Visited this Month:
Büna Coffeehouse: This month brought some snow, but I decided that wouldn’t keep me inside. I worked from Büna Coffeehouse on a Friday, and I am so grateful I made that decision. Büna Coffeehouse is a charming, community-loved café that brings authentic Ethiopian coffee culture to life in the heart of Washington, DC. Named after the Amharic word for coffee, this cozy spot offers expertly brewed espresso drinks and specialty coffees alongside a menu inspired by Ethiopian flavors. You can enjoy hearty breakfast and lunch options, from the Ethiopian-influenced Breakfast Bowl and Habesha Eggs to creative brunch plates and sandwiches that blend traditional ingredients with café favorites. The atmosphere is warm, and the service is welcoming.
I had a few cups of brewed coffee and banana walnut bread, which, surprisingly, I loved, considering I don’t usually like bananas! I also brought home some ground coffee. The owner and I chatted for a bit, and he recommended buying a coffee grinder since I usually purchase pre-ground coffee. He mentioned that the smell of grinding your own beans makes it completely worth it.
Mita Ethio-Japanese Café: This is such a unique neighborhood café in Washington, DC, blending Ethiopian and Japanese culinary traditions into one inviting dining experience. Co-owned and run by an Ethiopian-Japanese couple, the menu brings together fresh sushi, flavorful Ethiopian coffee, hearty breakfast options, and diverse lunch dishes, from traditional injera-accompanied Ethiopian plates to sushi rolls, wraps, and salads that beautifully showcase both cultures.
Now, how did I stumble upon this café? Curiosity. I was walking to a record store that day to pick up some new additions for my collection. I remembered a reflection I read in Journey to the Heart this month, where the author emphasized the importance of staying curious. Look around as you walk. Be open to stepping into the unknown. Let curiosity show you how much you have grown.
That’s exactly what led me to this café. As I walked, I observed the neighborhood, the houses, the cafés, and noticed two Ethiopian cafés along the way. This particular one was right across from the record store. After browsing and purchasing two new records, I wanted coffee. I walked into the café and was immediately amazed. I changed my mind about coffee and ordered a Mango smoothie instead. As I began taking photos, the owner and I started chatting. She complimented my locs, and we began talking about her business and the different dishes they offer. She even offered me to sample their sushi. I was in awe of how warm and welcoming she was. That moment left me feeling so blessed. If I had simply looked at the café from the outside and kept walking, I would have missed on such a beautiful encounter.
New record purchases
I love jazz. I am still very new to the genre, but it brings me genuine peace. Roy Eldridge’s trumpet album has been on repeat since I bought it, oh my! I also added Wyclef Jean’s Masquerade album to my collection. As soon as I saw it, I said, “Yes, you’re definitely coming home with me.”
I am so grateful for the opportunities February brought, the beautiful, unique moments, stepping outside of my comfort zone, and allowing curiosity to lead.
I hope you all had an amazing February 2026, and may March bring more than our minds can imagine!
Vanessa Korboi 